Have your PARTNER read this...

I always try to pass along any information I feel might be useful, and given that most of us feel a little shy expressing ourselves about sex, even to our partners, I thought this might be helpful...

We all know men and women aren't always on the same page sexually. But according to the March issue of "Men's Health", there are a few things we can agree on. The survey asked nearly 5,000 men and women to rank a bunch of sexual activities and say which ones they were most interested in, and least interested in. Here's what they found:

--The five things guys are most interested in doing with their partner are:

#1.) Having sex in public
#2.) Getting a striptease or lap dance
#3.) Watching pornography
#4.) Handcuffing their partner
#5.) A threesome with two GIRLS

--And the five things women are most interested in are:

#1.) Using sex toys
#2.) Being handcuffed
#3.) Having sex in public
#4.) Giving a striptease or lap dance
#5.) Watching pornography together

--The five things men are least interested in are:

#1.) A threesome with two GUYS
#2.) S & M
#3.) Trading dirty pictures
#4.) Spanking
#5.) Role-playing

--And the five things women are least interested in are:

#1.) S & M
#2.) A threesome with two GUYS
#3.) A threesome with two GIRLS
#4.) ummm... how do I put this delicately?... "alternate" entries...
#5.) Trading dirty pictures

--In other words, NEITHER of you want to use leather & whips and stuff, take dirty photos, or bring another dude into the bedroom. But BOTH of you want to do the nasty in public, have her strip and give you a 'lapper', handcuff her and watch dirty movies together... in my book, that is some SERIOUS common ground...

INFORMATION IS POWER, people!!